The girls turned 4 months old back on Sept. 7
th and are doing great. We saw the doctor last week and they are now in the 10
th percentile (25
th percentile when looking at their adjusted age). Their weights are as follows:
Molly - 10 pounds, 10 ounces
Madeline - 10 pounds, 11 ounces
Tess - 10 pounds, 8 ounces
They are all 22 1/2 inches
Yes, Madeline who was born in the middle weight and was then lagging behind the other two for a couple months, is now the heaviest. She does like to eat and she was also receiving rice cereal in her bottles of milk at night to help keep it down, so that may have contributed to her weight gain. They are all looking so cute and chubby and rounded out now...love it.
They are all looking more alike then ever too. They are
squealing and babbling and smiling a lot. They are rolling side to side and sometimes over and are able to sit up pretty nicely in their chairs. They've also started to REALLY notice each other now. The other night I was feeding Molly and Tess at the same time (they are now sturdy enough to do it without the nursing pillow...so nice) and they stopped to look at each other and were "speaking" back and forth to each other and grabbing hands. It was precious.
We had a nice time in Bethany Beach with the Sullivan family for the week over Labor Day. We had perfect weather all week - 80's, sunny, no humidity. We went to the pool a few times, the beach, out to dinner two nights after the girls were in bed and had lots of good times hanging out at the nice big house we rented. It had a screened in porch and big wrap around deck so it was nice to be able to feed the girls outside for a change. The girls did pretty good in the car for the most part until the last 1/2 hour when we had more of a stop/go situation with traffic lights. This got a little hairy and required a lot of me reaching over the seats to put their pacifiers in. December cannot come soon enough for us to trade in our 4Runner for a Minivan (even though I will
sooo miss our SUV days). We stopped in
Havertown at Michael's on the way down to change/feed and then stayed at Sean and Becky
O'Loughlin's in
Westchester, PA on the way back for the night to break up the drive. We had a nice time with them and Will and Finn even though the girls were pretty out of sorts by this point of the trip.
We realized after our week in Bethany that the girls were becoming more fussy and was probably due to them not really napping well. They use to be able to sleep wherever and whenever and could sleep through any noise, but now they are too alert and wake up easily. So, the days of them napping in the living room are over and we have been making sure to put them down in their cribs now when we see them getting tired. This has been hard because they cry out and are still only taking brief cat naps (45 min.-1 hour) for the most part. It seems that just as you sit down or try to get a task accomplished, you need to go back in to assist one of them every few minutes. Every now and then one of them will get a good nap in but it is so inconsistent. But, hopefully they will get more use to taking naps and will stay down longer as they get bigger (I HOPE). I am just really craving some kind of napping schedule now so that our days can be more predictable and organized. These last couple weeks have been really tough with "sleep training" and Madeline and Tess having their first colds which required a lot of suctioning during the night. The good news is that they are still sleeping longer stretches at night and go to sleep very easily at night. We've also been able to have time to ourselves now at night. We realized they were getting tired earlier at night so we try to make the last feeding be around 7pm so they are in bed by 8pm. This has been great and much needed after the very busy days with them. There was only one night several weeks ago before we went away that they all slept through the night with no interruptions. We haven't had one of those since. There is always a good sleeper each night but then there is always at least one baby that gets up and has a rough night and that typically leads to another baby being woken up. They are all in their own cribs now with one being in the nursery and the other two are each in our bigger room in their smaller sized cribs (one on my side of the bed, the other on Dennis' side). We would like to get them all into their own room to have our room to ourselves, but worry about them waking each other up and having 3 babies awake in the middle of the night again. We also like having the extra bed in the nursery for guests or to just lay them down when we are getting them all changed after baths or whatever and we would have to get rid of that in order to fit the three cribs. So, we'll see. We really need to get going on finding a house and getting our condo on the market. It was great being in
Hoboken for the summer and into the fall but by winter it will be tough to be cooped up in our small place. Plus, we are paying a huge mortgage because of the location which made sense when we were both working in the city, but now with me not working and us needing more space and parking it is not worth the money. Where we move is still the big question mark. We have been considering
Binghamton, the Philly area or the suburbs of NY/NJ and it all depends on either Dennis staying with his current job or getting a new job. Last week was a crazy week on Wall Street as everyone knows and it made for long hours for Dennis. Luckily
JPMorgan Chase is doing well, but it still impacted his business, clients, etc. Everything is so up in the air as to where we are going to end up so if anyone has any job leads please let us know as we are taking everything into consideration.
Things are definitely more intense/busy, but also more amazing every day. It is still heartbreaking at the times when each of our hands are full with a baby (either my mom and I or Dennis and I) and we can't pick up the third baby that might be crying. It just seems so unfair for the babies especially when it is during a feeding and they might have to wait their turn (this happens when one baby was sleeping or is content so I start breastfeeding the other baby while the 2
nd baby gets a bottle and then low and behold they third baby wakes up and is screaming to be fed or held). Or if I do try and feed two at once and they get frustrated because it does not go smoothly when one has to burp and then both get interrupted and are now crying. It is at these times where it is just traumatic for the baby and for us. But, hopefully they won't be scarred for life!
The lack of extra time should explain why I have not updated the blog in a few weeks. So, let's see, what else have we been up to....
Oh, I have been doing some more individual outings with the girls which is a lot of fun. It is fun experiencing life as a mom of one baby for a few hours. We can wiz down the street in a stroller without getting noticed or stopped and be out the door in 5 minutes. I took Molly to a baptism class I had to attend with Carolynn, Steve, and Henry last Saturday. Lucky her huh? But, she was so good! I took Madeline shopping with Carolynn (her Godmother) and I later in the day. Then, I took Tess to the grocery store and to church on Sunday. Madeline seemed to enjoy shopping (I had a feeling she would) and she was soaking it all in. Tess put on a show at the grocery store with all her cooing and smiling at the other customers. Good thing they didn't get too close because she had stinkies in her pants (of course as soon as we got there I smelled it). My mom is still down here in
Hoboken with my dad coming on the weekends which has been huge. My mom is even more busy now with the addition of Henry, but she is still enjoying it. Henry is so cute and we get to see a lot of him and Carolynn which has been nice. I think the girls are going to be fighting over him in days to come. They are doing an impromptu Baptism for him during the mass tomorrow and then brunch afterwards. They wanted to have it while Steve's mom is in town for a couple weeks. I was asked to be the Godmother..what an honor!
I'm in the process of getting some pictures downloaded and maybe some video too, so that will be next.